Podcast Archive
Click on the podcast titles below to listen.Experts in Instantaneous Transformation: Jennifer  |
Jennifer talks about how she discovered her passion for life by cleaning a bathroom.
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The License To Be You  |
Rashmi realizes that she's been holding back from dating and expressing herself for fear that people will think she's 'weird'. Through her discussion with Ariel & Shya, she discovers that simply being herself is perfect.
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Completing the Little Things  |
Giovanni sees how handling small, day-to-day tasks can have a profound impact on the quality of his life.
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| And This is What I Want | Ben and Swain see that the complexities of their relationship are exactly what they want. |
| The Passion of Being in Love | Val discovers how to be vulnerable in her life. |
| What If There's Nothing Wrong With You? | Judy sees her habitual ways of being from a new perspective. |
| What If This Is the Last Moment of Your Life? | Susan discovers how to be a "yes" to the requests her life makes of her. |
| Drama-free Existence | Ben realizes he has outgrown his job as a union delegate. |
| Being a Person of the World | Madhu unwires the cultural conditioning that has determined how he has interacted with his co-workers. |
| Adorable You | The Kanes suggest that Dave is lovable and he actually listens. |
| Just Say Thank You | Jodi battles with herself about how great she is. |
| A Victim For All Seasons | Ian looks at how his requests are actually a setup to be a victim. |
| Second Hand Complaints | Judy discovers those things she resists seeing follow her home and make her miserable. |
| Always the Wrong Man | Susan asks Ariel and Shya why she always seems to pick the wrong kind of guy. |
| Looking at Your Truth | Valerie discovers that it's easier to get lost blaming other people for being upset than telling the truth about the state of her relationship. |
| Working As an Adult | Caitlin asks about how to interact appropriately with people in stressful work situations. This podcast covers the difference between being direct with people and being sharp with them, as well as discovering a satisfying, adult perspective on work rather than living from a child's idea of what it is to be a grown up. |
| Living with Consistency | The Kanes talk with Stefanie about being present with consistency and they discuss how putting pressure on yourself to be different keeps the thing that you are resisting in place. You will also learn how the three principles of transformation apply to dissolving upsets. |
| Welcome Home | Mac and Ellen reconnect and rekindle their love for one another. |
| Fun is Not a Four Letter Word | Haydee looks at the ins and outs of dating. |
| Flirting as a Lifestyle | Worried about her judgmental nature, Dorothy discovers flirting as an alternative. |
| Developing Compassion | Brian sees the similarity between himself and his father and how everything he said he didn't want to be like in his father, he has in spades. |
| There's Got to Be a Payoff | Andrea becomes aware of the payoff in her resisting or disagreeing with how her life is showing up. |
| It's Not My Fault | Rod discovers he has a choice of either victimizing himself with people's judgments or going for his truth. |
| Don't Pick on Yourself | As Caitlin finds out, there is no need to pick on herself. |
| Time to Live Your Life Rather Than Talk About Having One | Joe is looking at whether or not to take a new job. |
| Being Where You Are, Not Where You Think You Should Be | Lenore discovers that she's doing exactly what she should be doing in this moment. |
| Inspiring Others | Holly discovers what it takes to inspire others. |
| Debt: How You Got There and How to Get Out | Corrine is looking for "permission" to get a new car while struggling with her debt. |
| Harnessing Your Enthusiasm | Ryan discovers that his future has been based in past decisions and by broadening his horizons, more is available. |
| Be Interested Rather than Interesting | Racquel realizes that her attention has been on herself when she's speaking with her mom and she discovers she can redirect her attention to be interested in her mother instead. |
| When to Give a Helping Hand | Ellen's distressed by family dynamics and looks at what to do next. |
| Going For Another's Approval as Opposed to Living Your Life | Leah discovers that in order to have an excellent life, she needs to stop going for the approval or disapproval of her father. |
| Treating Yourself With Equality | The Kanes shed light on the cultural influences of Karen's work ethic. |
| The Law of Attraction and True Satisfaction | Having heard of the Law of Attraction, Mac wonders if it is really the road to satisfaction. |
| Hiding in Plain Sight | Juan sees how he used his intuition to press on people's hot button in order to hide. |
| The Grieving Process | Mark talks about his feelings after the passing of his father and discovers they are so much more than just grief. |
| How to Have It All | Stephanie discovers how to balance work and play. |
| Working On Yourself Doesn't Work | George wants to change his "bad habits." The Kanes suggest Transformation instead. |
| Taking the Reins of Your Life and Riding Your Horse, Part 2 | Examining decisions he made about himself and his parents as a child, Michael now has new possibilities for intimacy in his adult relationships. |
| Taking the Reins of Your Life and Riding Your Horse, Part 1 | Examining decisions he made about himself and his parents as a child, Michael now has new possibilities for intimacy in his adult relationships. |
| Colleen's Country Song | Colleen, raised in a family of country-western folk singers, discovers how to sing a new tune. |
| Trusting Yourself | Joe looks at plans he's making and investigates whether or not they are truly what he wants. |
| Seeing Debt in a New Way | Being in debt was a comfort zone for Dave and the Kanes suggest something new to take the pressure off and allow it to dissolve. |
| Surrender vs. Succumb, Part 2 | Grasie and Damien learn how to fully surrender into their relationship to discover another level of true intimacy. |
| Surrender vs. Succumb, Part 1 | Grasie sees how outside influences affect how she relates with her boyfriend and how to have a great relationship in spite of those influences. |
| See and Be Seen | Damien becomes aware of how to dissolve old behaviors so he can be more fully present with people in his life. |
| Being vs. Doing | Judy gives herself a break and allows herself to "be". |
| Having Fun Now | Val discovers that dating isn't such serious business. |
| Procrastination and Productivity | Holly's disappointment with dating tends to have her not date at all. In this podcast, she discovers a new possibility. |
| Procrastination and Productivity | In this conversation with Ariel & Shya, Jay discovers how to stop procrastinating about the things he wants to do in his life. |
| The Magic of the Moment | Stephanie sees that she can relax into this moment of her life to discover well-being. |
| Being Boldly You | Mac sees how to be boldy himself without qualification or second guessing. |
| Discovering How to Be Genuine, Part 2 | The Kanes have a discussion with Andy and Leah about not manipulating each other to get what they want. |
| Discovering How to Be Genuine, Part 1 | The Kanes have a discussion with Andy and Leah about not manipulating each other to get what they want. |
| Open the Portal and Intimacy Will Follow | Haydee discovers the keys to being intimate. |
| A Magical Dating Season | Fernanda learns a whole new approach to dating. |
| Living Directly | The Kanes discuss thinking versus living your life directly and letting go of the fight with your parents. |
| Letting the Men in Your Life Be Great | Madhu discovers that his unaware competition with other men is denying his own greatness. |
| A clip from The Roots of Satisfaction | |
| True Listening | Tony's ability to hear has improved in the last week and he finds out why. |
| Relationships | The Kanes discuss how dating can be an easy, enlightening and fun experience. |
| Being Bold | Ellen was suppressing herself for fear of being offensive. The Kanes talk with her about being a community leader and being bold. |
| A clip from Instantaneous Transformation: An Honest Look At Self Realization with Ariel and Shya Kane | |
| Connecting on a Deeper Level | David is inspired to connect with people on a deeper level. |
| Resisting Your Life | In a conversation with the Kanes, Dave realizes his resistance to life is omnipresent. |
| The French Resistance | Isabelle realizes that her heritage of resistance is no longer serving her. |
| Go When You Go, Stop When You Stop | Roderick investigates how to keep going with consistency. |
| Non-judgmental Seeing | Kate realizes that with awareness, her judgments are not a problem. |
| Late Night Deadlines | A conversation with Mac about how there's more to life than work. |
| Dating | Ariel and Shya discuss with Valerie how to take the pressure off finding the "one". |
| Respecting Your Path | Giovanni discovers that his childhood promises are not in his best interest. |
| Being a Yes to Your No | Caitlin determines it's time to move on in her life. |
| Blood is Thicker Than Water | Jay discovers that even a casual conversation with his brother can affect his relationship. |
| I Think Liberal is Better | Lenore gets interested in how she really is, as opposed to the story she's told herself. |
| Making It Simple | A college professor looks at his relationship to his students and his relationship to his life. |
| Perpetrations | Ariel and Shya support Colleen in defusing a month-long upset. |
| I'm 'Sinking' | Stephanie discovers how to recognize and unwire her tendency to get upset. |
| The Problem That Isn't | Karen discovers that her failure to pay her bills on time is a convenient way to avoid dating and having fun |
| Playtime is All the Time | Ariel and Shya discuss with Linda how to have even mundane chores be fun and fulfilling. |
| Work, Sex and Being Passionate | Dorothy sees how it takes a lot of energy to suppress her sensuality and how suppressing something in herself causes everything else to go dead - even her passion for her job. |
| Upsets and Drama | The Kanes show Stephanie how if she catches herself feeling upset and simply notices it, she does not have to experience the drama that usually comes with it. |
| Moving Into Adulthood | The Kanes talk with Emily about the transition from college into working life and the challenge of functioning without a given structure. They also give hints on how to be more productive. |
| Competition and Contribution | The Kanes talk about how Josh's competitive nature can get in the way of contributing to people, and how awareness can melt this automatic behaviour. |
| Keeping Sensuality Alive | Ellen wonders how she can keep the sensuality she is experiencing during the Costa Rica retreat alive when she comes home. The Kanes talk about how trying to hold on to a particular state in order to maintain it robs one of spontaneity and detracts from the moment. |
| Being Appropriate with Others | Andy wonders why he feels compelled to make inappropriate jokes around certain people, even though these jokes are out of character for him. Through the Kanes, Andy learns that by simply noticing a behavior can lead him to acting appropriately. |
| Beating Up on Yourself and Vulnerability | The Kanes help Yolanda see that people love her even with the faults she perceives in herself. They also recommend becoming aware of the little ways we beat up on ourselves as the key to being gentle with ourselves. |
| Judgments | Ariel and Shya explain how the Principals of Transformation allow us to notice judgments without operating through them. |
| Intimacy and Pleasure | Caitlin discovers how she can choose upsets to avoid intimacy and how she can use this as an opportunity to keep expanding. |
| Trying to Fix the Future | The Kanes elaborate on the second principle of Transformation: You can't be any different than you are in this moment. |
| Finding Your Passion | Ariel and Shya suggest to Lenore that getting engaged with excellence in whatever she is doing is more valuable than trying to find her passion |
| Relating to Your Parents | The Kanes suggest that having compassion for our parents starts with being gentle with ourselves. |
| Being Present | The Kanes explain that the present moment flows effortlessly when we leave the past and future alone. |
| Setting Goals | The Kanes discuss how using your intuition and seeing from an anthropological point of view can support goal setting. |
| Life is Easy | Transformation is a "communicable ease". Stephanie describes how, in working with the Kanes, her life has become easy and she looks forward to each day. Ariel and Shya discuss what it is to represent transformation and the importance of telling the truth about who you are. |
| Familial Influences | Hope discovers a new possibility while discussing how her upbringing has influenced her idea of herself and what it means to be a mother. She also learns that really allowing yourself to feel emotions lets them dissolve. |
| Engage with Excellence | This podcast offers powerful insights into sharing one's brilliance. Ariel and Shya show how taking the attention off yourself produces excellence. They also talk about being fully engaged in your life and doing what life requires of you, without trying to get it over with. |
| Looking at Fear | The Kanes demonstrate how to have fear disappear by simply looking at it, without trying to figure it out. |
| Inhibitors to Being Present | The Kanes share their insights into how not recognizing your attractions can keep you from being fully present as well as how relationships can be easy and just unfold when you are really there with another person. |
| Relationships | Ariel and Shya discuss working cooperatively as a team in relationship. They also offer their unique perspective on the role of men and women in relationships in response to a question about women surrendering to men. |
| Mechanical Behavior Patterns | In this podcast, Rod and the Kanes discuss his difficulty when it comes to listening to men. They also talk about learning to manage the mechanical behavior patterns rather than attempting to "get over" them. |
| Overcoming Fear | Alex asks about overcoming fears and the Kanes explain how we sometimes "pick up" our emotions from other people. |
| Sharing Transformation | Ariel and Shya have a conversation with Rainer about the true meaning of sharing transformation and talk about how other people matter. They also discuss how enthusiasm is contagious. |
| Working As an Adult | Caitlin asks about how to interact appropriately with people in stressful work situations. This podcast covers the difference between being direct with people and being sharp with them, as well as discovering a satisfying, adult perspective on work rather than living from a child's idea of what it is to be a grown up. |
| Gain Personal Power | In this podcast, the Kanes teach how to gain personal power by learning to give and keep your word with yourself. They also explain the differences between preferences and desires and how to build consistency by becoming aware of your resistance to being told what to do by life. |
| Living with Consistency | The Kanes talk with Stefanie about being present with consistency and they discuss how putting pressure on yourself to be different keeps the thing that you are resisting in place. You will also learn how the three principles of transformation apply to dissolving upsets. |